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When the kids are at home, mealtimes can go one of two ways, a family get together or a chaotic scream-fest in which you try to keep them sat down long enough to fill them up.
Hopefully, dinner at your house goes well more often than not. But just in case, we’ve put together a few ideas to try to make sure your mealtimes with the kids are relaxing meals.
Eating together makes for a much more enjoyable experience and builds a sense of family too. While there’s nothing wrong with fish fingers and other kid-friendly foods, it’s good to expose them to other foods as well. By eating together, your kids will get a chance to see you eating different, healthy dishes and hopefully start eating them as well. (Finally, my daughter eats hummus. Looking for a hummus recipe in preparation for International Hummus Day? We’ve got one for you).
The best way to get kids interested in dinner is to get them cooking with you. By asking them to do important jobs for you and assigning them tasks, they will feel like they are really helping. Everybody likes to feel responsible and needed and this applies to kids at dinner time too.
Just remember that what might seem like an easy job for you, like “crack an egg in that bowl” or “grate some cheese, please”, are actually difficult tasks for children. They haven’t had the practice you have and will probably end up making a mess. But let’s not worry about that yet.
Also, by getting kids more involved with the cooking, they will also be more inclined to eat up. After all, it’s their hard work they’ll be enjoying now, and they can see the effort that you put in every day.
Kids may be great little helpers around the kitchen, but they are not gourmet chefs. While they might be able to whisk an egg or mix the flour, they are not going to make a souffle or knock up an egg-white omelette. So just be sure your expectations line up with those of your pint-sized kitchen porters before you start cooking.
Why not let the kids choose what you’re having for dinner? You’ll need to be careful here as you could end up with chocolate sandwiches and pasta with jelly. But you can let them look through the cookbooks and see what catches their eye. It’s a good idea to make up a weekly meal planner so you don’t need to think about cooking every day. You can even download our free weekly meal planner which is great if you’re trying to cut down on your meat and fish intake. If you've got some time at the weekend, you could also try some batch cooking and freeze extra meals to eat during the week.
Whether it’s ponies, superheroes, teddy bears or dinosaurs, theming your meals will give the kids an opportunity to influence what happens at the dinner table. They can make place labels for everyone, table mats, or other table decorations. You could even cut the food into shapes to match the theme (getting a little trickier now).
Instead of just plating up, have various dishes around the kitchen and everyone can help themselves. You might need to regulate what everyone has to eat if you try this though. Little ones might get carried away with the pasta and “forget” to put any veg on their plates.
OK, the time has come. That mess we’ve been ignoring! Now’s the time to deal with it. If you’re lucky you’ll be able to keep your kitchen hands enthusiastic and get them to help you clean up as well. If not, well, it’ll take you a little longer, but surely that’s a small price to pay for a fun mealtime with the family.